This page is to share the little knowledge I have derived from playing with this LCD module
Header Connector as seen from the back
VCC 1 2 GND
RS 3 4 CONTRAST
E 5 6 R/W
D0 7 8 D1
D2 9 10 D3
D4 11 12 D5
D6 13 14 D7
VCC = 5V
GND = 0V