by Virginia Woolf (1928)
WOMAN AND
MAN
After
living about two hundred years as a man,
With some
of the guineas left from the sale of the tenth pearl of her string1,
It was not caused, that is to say, simply and solely by the thought of her
chastity and how she could preserve it. In normal circumstances a lovely young
woman alone
would have thought of nothing else; the whole edifice of female government is
based on that foundation stone; chastity is their jewel, their centrepiece,
which they run mad to protect, and die when ravished of9. But if one has been a man for
thirty years or so, and an Ambassador into the bargain10,
if one has held a Queen in
one's arms and one or two other ladies, if report be true, of less exalted
rank, if one has married a Rosina Pepita11, and so on,
one does not perhaps give such a very great start about that.
"Lord," she thought, when she had recovered from her start, stretching
herself out at length under her awning, "this is a pleasant, lazy way of
life, to be sure. But", she thought, giving her legs a kick14, "these skirts are plaguey15
things to have about one's
heels16. Yet the stuff (flowered paduasoy17)
is the loveliest in the
world. Never have I seen
my own skin (here she laid her hand on her knee) look to such advantage as now. Could I, however, leap
overboard18 and swim in clothes like these? No! Therefore, I should have
to trust to the protection of a blue-jacket19. Do I object to that? Now do
I?" she wondered, here encountering the first knot20 in the
smooth skein21 of her argument.
Dinner came before she had untied
it, and then it was the Captain himself -Captain Nicholas Benedict Bartolus, a
sea-captain of distinguished aspect, who did it for her as he helped her to a
slice of corned22 beef.
'A little of the fat, Ma'am?"
he asked. "Let me cut you just the tiniest little slice the size of your
finger nail." At those words a delicious tremor ran through her frame.
Birds sang; the torrents rushed. It recalled the feeling of indescribable
pleasure with which she had first seen Sasha23, hundred of years ago. Then she
had pursued24, now she fled25. Which is the greater ecstasy? The
man's or the woman's? And are they not perhaps the same? No, she thought, this
is the most delicious (thanking the Captain but refusing), to refuse, and see
him frown 26 . Well, she would, if he wished it, have the
very thinnest, smallest shiver27 in the world. This was the most
delicious of all, to yield 28 and see him smile. "For nothing",
she thought, regaining her couch29 on
deck, and continuing the argument, "is more heavenly than to resist and to
yield; to yield and to resist. Surely it throws the spirit into such a rapture
as nothing else can. So that I'm not sure", she continued, "that I
won't throw myself overboard, for the mere pleasure of being rescued by a blue
jacket after all.
(It must be remembered that she was
like a child entering into possession of a pleasaunce30 or toy cupboard; her arguments
would not commend themselves to mature women, who have had the run of it all
their lives.)
"But what used we young
fellows in the cockpit31 of the Marie Rose to
say about a woman who threw herself overboard for the pleasure of being rescued
by a blue jacket?" she said. "We had a word for them. Ah! I have
it……. (But we must omit that word; it was disrespectful in the extreme and
passing strange on a lady's lips.) "Lord! Lord!" she cried again at
the conclusion of her thoughts, "must I then begin to respect the opinion
of the other sex, however monstrous I think it? If I wear skirts, if I can't
swim, if I have to be rescued by a blue jacket, by God!" she - cried,
"I must!" Upon which a gloom fell over her"'. Candid by nature,
and averse to all kinds of equivocation, to tell lies bored her. It seemed to
her a roundabout" way of going to work. Yet, she reflected, the flowered
paduasoy - the pleasure of being rescued by a blue jacket - if these were only
to be obtained by roundabout ways, roundabout one must go, she supposed. She
remembered how, as a young man, she had insisted that women must be obedient,
chaste, scented, and exquisitely apparelled. "Now I shall have to pay in
my own person for those desires," she reflected; "for women are not
(judging by my own short experience of the sex) obedient, chaste, scented, and
exquisitely apparelled" by nature. They can only attain these graces,
without which they may enjoy none of the delights of life, by the most tedious
discipline. There's the hairdressing," she thought, "that alone will
take an hour of my morning; there's looking in the looking-glass, another hour;
there's staying and lacing35; there's washing and powdering36;
there's changing from silk to lace and from lace to paduasoy; there's being
chaste year in year out...." Here she tossed37 her foot
impatiently, and showed an inch or two of calf38. A sailor on the
mast39, who happened to look down at the moment, started so
violently that he missed his footing40 and only saved himself by the
skin of his teeth41. "If the sight of my ankles42
means death to an honest fellow who, no doubt, has a wife and family to
support, I must, in all humanity, keep them covered,"
"And that's the last oath44
I shall ever be able to swear," she thought; "once I set foot
on English soil. And I shall never be able to crack a man over the head, or
tell him he lies in his teeth, or draw my sword and run him through the body,
or sit among my peers, or wear a coronet 45, or walk in
procession, or sentence a man to death, or lead an army, or prance down
Whitehall on a charger46, or wear seventy-two different medals on my
breast. All I can do, once I set foot on English soil, is to pour out tea and
ask my lords how they like it. D'you take sugar?
D'you take
cream?" And mincing out47 the words, she was horrified to perceive
how low an opinion she was
forming of the other sex, the manly, to which it had once been her pride to
belong. "To fall from a mast-head", she thought, "because you see a woman's ankles; to
dress up like a Guy Fawkes48 and parade
the streets, so that women may praise49 you; to deny a woman teaching lest she may laugh at you50
; to be the slave of the frailest chit in petticoats51, and yet to
go about as if you were the Lords of creation. - Heavens!" she thought,
"what fools they make of us -what fools we are!" And here it would
seem from some ambiguity in her terms that she was censuring both sexes
equally, as if she belonged to neither; and indeed, for the time being, she
seemed to vacillate; she was man; she was woman; she knew the secrets, shared
the weaknesses of each. It was a most bewildering and whirligig52 state
of mind to be in. The comforts of ignorance seemed utterly53 denied
her. She was a feather blown on the gale54. Thus it is no great wonder, as she
pitted 55 one sex against the other, and found each alternately full
of the most deplorable infirmities, and was not sure to which she belonged (...)
"Ignorant and poor as we are
compared with the other sex," she thought, continuing the sentence which
she had left unfinished the other day, "armoured with every weapon as they
are, while they debar56 us even from a knowledge of the
alphabet" (and from these opening words it is plain that something had
happened during the night to give her a push towards the female sex, for she
was speaking more as a woman speaks than as a man, yet with a sort of content after all), "still-they
fall from the mast-head."
Here she gave a great
yawn" and fell asleep. When she woke, the ship was sailing before a fair
breeze so near the shore that towns on the cliffs' edge58 seemed
only kept from slipping59 into the water by the interposition of
some great rock or the twisted roots of some ancient olive tree. The scent of
oranges wafted60 from a
million trees, heavy with the fruit, reached her on deck. A score of blue
dolphins, twisting their tails, leapt high now and again into the air.
Stretching her arms out (arms, she had learnt already, have no such fatal
effects as legs), she thanked Heaven that she was not prancing down Whitehall
on a war-horse, nor even sentencing a man to death. "Better is it",
she thought, "to be clothed with poverty and ignorance, which are the dark
garments of the female sex; better to leave the rule and discipline of the
world to others; better be quit of martial ambition61, the love of power, and all the
other manly desires if so one can more fully enjoy the most exalted raptures
known to the human spirit, which are", she said aloud, as her habit was
when deeply moved, "contemplation, solitude, love."
"Praise God that I'm a
woman!" she cried, and was about to run into the extreme folly - than which none is more
distressing in woman or man either62 - of being proud of her sex, when she paused over the
singular word, which, for all we can do to put it in its place, has crept in63
at the end of the last sentence: Love. "Love," said
"The cliffs of
"Christ Jesus!" she cried.
Happily, the sight of her native
land after long absence excused both start and exclamation, or she would have
been hard put to it to explain to Captain Bartolus the raging 72 and
conflicting emotions which now boiled within her. How tell him that she, who
now trembled on his arm, had been a Duke and an Ambassador? How explain to him
that she, who had been lapped like a lily in folds73
of paduasoy, had hacked heads off74,
and lain with loose women75 among treasure sacks in the holds of
pirate ships on summer nights when the tulips were abloom76 and the
bees buzzing off Wapping Old Stairs? Not even to herself could she explain the
giant start she gave, as the resolute right hand of the sea-captain
indicated the cliffs of the
1. string. Collana. 2. outfit. Corredo. 3. deck. Ponte (di nave).
4. hitherto. Fino ad allora. 5. gipsy. Gitane. 6. coil. Ingombro. 7. awning spread. Tenda per ripararsi dal sole. 8. start. Sussulto. 9. ravished of. Ne vengono private con la forza. 10. into the bargain. Per giunta. 11. Rosina Pepita. Donna sposata da Orlando nella sua ~
ita precedente. 13. quick wits. Spiriti superficiali. 14. giving her legs a kick. Calciando l'aria. 15. plaguey. Fastidiose. 16. heels. Tacchi. 17. flowered paduasoy. Broccato a fiori. 19. blue
jacket. Marinaio. 20. knot. Nodo, difficoltà. 21. smooth skein. Facile
matassa. 22. corned. Conservato sotto sale. 23. Sasha. Principessa russa amata da Orlando. 24. pursued. Inseguito, dato la caccia. 25. fled.
Scappava. 26. frown.
Accigliarsi. 27. shiver. Fettina. 28. to yeald. Cedere. 29. couch. Divano. 30.
pleasaunce. Qualcosa di ambito. 31. cockpit. Quartiere di poppa. 33. roundabout. Tortuoso. 34. apparelled. Vestite. 35. staying and lacing. Indossare il busto e strigerlo con i
lacci. 36. powdering. Incipriarsi. 37. tossed. Agitò. 38. calf. Polpaccio. 39. mast. Albero
(di nave). 40. missed his footing. Perse l'equilibrio. |
44. oath. Promessa, giuramento. 45. coronet. Corona,
diadema. 46. prance .., charger. Cavalcare impettito sul mio destriero lungo Whitehall. 47. mincing out. Pronunciando con affettazione. 48. Guy Fawkes. Burattino. 49. praise. Lodare. 66. to quicken and deepen. Rinvigorire e approfondire. 67. hints. Dubbi. 68. plain. Evidenti 69. lets linger. Lascia indugiare. 70. raised her to her feet. L'aiutò ad alzarsi. 71, to the salute. In
segno di saluto. 72. raging. Violente. 73. lapped like a lily in folds. Avvolta come un giglio tra le pieghe. |